3 Things You can do to Help Your Child’s Teacher

Teachers and coaches both have a thankless job at times, and find themselves unable to please every parent. As a parent, it is your duty to look after your child’s welfare, but watch how you go about it, or your child may be the one who suffers from your lack of wisdom. Make sure that you remember that a teacher cannot please everyone, and that they are under-staffed and challenged by budget cuts and testing requirements.

Three things that you can do to help:

1. Don’t jump to conclusions and go off in an email or letter addressed to the teacher or principal. Give it a day or two, and think about it calmly, then send a polite email or note that    praises the good things that the teacher is doing first, before you get to your concern. And keep it brief!

2. Be supportive. Don’t talk poorly about the teacher in front of your child! Send in supplies on time, and back up the teacher with quick follow-through of any requests that they have made. Be on time for conferences, and smile when you enter the room.

3. Vote for your school levies, and volunteer at the school if you can.


  1. helena phillips says:

    Good Morning Nealie,
    Aunt Phila and my mother were both teachers and they would agree wholeheartedly with those instructions!.

  2. Sarah Wank says:

    Volunteering as a room mother for special occasions was something that I did in the past. It did do wonders to promote a better child-teacher relationship.

  3. Diane Lemyre says:

    Hi Nealie
    I appreciate your post today. As parents relationship with your child’s teacher is crucial. I am an aide in a special education classroom. Communication and taking an attentive interest in your child’s curriculum is crucial in order for your child to receive the best. This promotes a better opportunity for you to work together. I am looking forward to purchasing Chasing Lily and reading this book. I am looking forward as an aide in special education, to see what I can learn from a parent’s point of view about how their experience was a their children went to school.

    • NealieRose says:

      Diane, Thank you for filling the gap, as you do in your classroom. It cannot be an easy job. And thank you for reading Chasing Lilly. <3

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