Are You a Purist?

Are You a PuristA Purist has strict or precise rules that do not vary, regardless of the situation.

I know God says that we aren’t supposed to lie, but  have to believe that He was okay with it when Corrie Ten Boom’s family hid the Jews from the Gestapo, and lied to do it.

A purist would have turned them over to the Gestapo, because it’s wrong to tell a lie.

What am I getting at? Someone had a special-needs child, and his fish died. It was a fish that could NOT have been identified by the child in a police line-up.

The purist insisted that the child be told the fish died, even though there was a high possibility of a melt-down and self-harming after the child was told the fish was deceased.

Someone else felt that it was fine to replace the fish and not say anything. Replace it as many times as needed, and make that the longest-living fish in the history of the world. Why? Because there have been too many crazy incidents in this child’s life, and he isn’t stable.

Personally, I don’t believe that one-size-fits-all when it comes to damaged children, and I’d vote for the fish that lives forever.

Comments either way are welcome. 🙂 Nealie

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  1. Crystal says:

    Definitely go with the fish that lives forever! We are also to be peacemakers not ones of chaos. For a special needs child, I believe the fish that lasts forever is a kind of peacemaking.

  2. Holly Livingston says:

    I’m definitely not a purist. In the Bible, Rahab lied to save the lives of the spies, and was commended for it. Also, God told Moses to tell Pharoah that they were leaving for only 3 days, when really they were leaving for good. God knew that’s all Pharoah could handle. It’s important to be truthful, but there are times when we need to be sensitive to the situation at hand.

  3. Joy says:

    I agree. Protecting a fragile heart is the most important thing. “In all you do, act in love and kindness…”

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